Take a Smile!

Happily taken and very much in love…

I choose to be unstoppable and bigger than my concern and worries, the strength of you inspire me daily which makes me trust my intuition and live a courages life with you.  The best feeling in the world is realizing that I am perfectly happy without the thing I thought I need. 


Reminiscing at Hua Hin, Thailand

Reminiscing at Hua Hin, Thailand

After a long tiring days of working too hard to turn over our project, perhaps I need to treat myself for a break. For peaceful and reminiscing relaxation I preferred to choose either a beach, resort and/or any place which are away from chaos.

Then I decided to spend my vacation at Hua Hin, Thailand; it takes three hours by plane to Bangkok and another 3 hours by car to get to Let’s Sea Al Fresco Resort – Hua Hin. It’s a little bit tiring but when I see the beautiful place and how peaceful it is, then it pays a lot of tired experience to get here.

As the many folks told, the vision for Let’s Sea Hua Hin Al Fresco Resort was inspired by long beach walks at different times of the year. Drawn back by memories of childhood visits to splash in the same gentle waves and rediscover Hua Hin all over again. The beach changes by day and night.

I am energized by the sunrise or marvel at the quiet beauty of the moon rising at the end of the day and indeed experience the starry nights with evening strolls at low tide in the cool season and now discovering the true grace and calm of Hua Hin.

I will be staying here for four days more and I hope to visit some of the temple and other activities of the Royal Family later today as part of the itinerary of the Resort. For now I am enjoying my stay and the services they provided me here is excellent.

Higher Than Number One!

It is commonly said that “Nobody is Perfect,” so nobody can be perfect, but experience can teach you to live as perfect as possible. Why put off what you can do now, when it keeps you busy and focused? You will have more time to get back to whatever you were doing before, plus, you won’t get yelled at if you forget.


Sometimes, we are forced to do things we hate but we felt responsible to get it done for the sake of the people we love, not only that; it happens commonly in our job. We sometimes see or experience events that make us feel terrible and we perceive these events as being wrong. But pleasure in the job puts perfection in our work.

There are cases that you don’t need to be perfect for something just to make other person like you, don’t you know that they already like you (as is) because in their eyes you are perfect for everything? You cannot please everybody, (of course) and you do not need to do so, because your principle is the expression of perfection, and as imperfect beings like us cannot practice perfection.

Do you investigate your behavior and dig beneath your anger for its source, apologize to someone so that you can both feel better and resolve to do better next time? Everyone with insight enough to admit his limitations comes nearest to perfection.

Perfection is not attainable, but if we chase perfection we can catch excellence. However, they who aim at it, and persevere, will come much nearer to it than those whose laziness and despondency make them give it up as unattainable.

I met a nice guy before and we had a semi-serious relationship. I was wondering why every time I accomplished something either in work or in everyday living he often told me, “I’m very happy for you, you’re higher than number one,” but then my reaction was just casual and not so curious about it, maybe because I was young and not so matured to think things for real. He even gave me a poster of my favorite, “Lord of the Rings” movie with his photo at the bottom and he wrote this again. Now, I realized how much he appreciates me but sadly he is not the Mr. Right for me, we have so many differences that I had long enough to give way until in the end I just give up.

I didn’t seek perfection for a relationship but I know before that he is not the guy I want to spend the rest of my life. The essence of being human is that one does not seek perfection like you feel much for others and little for ourselves and to restrain our selfishness and exercise our benevolent affections. Nevertheless, he thought me to do the best as I can be.

No one becomes perfect but you can be higher than number one.


Businessmen reactions on Miley VMA’s Performance

Unknowingly the viral discussion of Miley VMA’s performance, I haven’t checked the news due to special project I am working with my team. I went to a Summit yesterday related to the renewable Power Plant implementations and new edge.

Prior the summit started, I saw six men in discussion; they are bubbly, exaggerated and of course having fun which catch my attention, so I sat before them and pretending to be busy on my hand-outs and brochures given by the receptionist.

Surprisingly I heard their discussion;

  • Men-in-Tie #1: Do you really think that was live and not scripted?
  • Men-in-Tie #2: It was so unusual did you see the video; OMG! I saw the long flattened tongue? Oh men it was good to lick.
  • Men-in-Tie #3: That was a bad investment.
  • Men-in-Tie #4: The interest was on top already but now it drastically drops down.
  • Men-in-Tie #5: The business morale goes down.
  • Men-in-Tie #6: I still really love the performance. But I cared most the kids audience and viewers.

I was so desperate to know who this girl they referring to, until I went back to the office I asked my colleagues if they know a celebrity gone viral for the past days and they replied, it was Miley Cyrus. Then I checked online videos and got this! (sorry video was no longer available)


Now, I fully understand the reactions of these businessmen that even outside of their world they spit a comment on this performance. I personally liked Miley but the transformation she up to brings not so good impression to the public especially her fans. Goodbye to Hannah Montana image.

Sometimes, it happen in our lives that we are excited on what we can do more to show people that we keep pacing with the new trend and meet their expectations, but hopefully at the end of the day, the smile of we wear is due to the best experienced we did without regrets.

We live in an increasingly sophisticated world that makes it difficult to make simple comments on stuff. There are too many people on both sides of the border who are taking advantage of circumstances and the situation.

Everyone makes their own comments. That’s how rumors get started.

Getting Up Early in the Morning?

From snooze-button addict to morning person.


Sunrise in the Berkshires

I know lots of people who do, but I don’t. (Normally, that is. This photo is an anomaly.) The warm shelter of the quilt is too cozy, my body insists on just a few more minutes — and then a few more, and a few more. But those stalwart folk who rule their bodies with an iron will, rise and go outdoors and reap rewards I know nothing about. One of them is definitely the poet William Stafford:

Any Morning

Just lying on the couch and being happy.
Only humming a little, the quiet sound in the head.
Trouble is busy elsewhere at the moment, it has
so much to do in the world.

People who might judge are mostly asleep; they can’t
monitor you all the time, and sometimes they forget.
When dawn flows over the hedge you can
get up and act busy.

Little corners like this…

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